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Going Dark
Privacy isn't about hiding something. It's about deciding who gets to see it, and right now that decision is being made for you by default.
I spend most of my free time thinking about cybersecurity, and the more I train on it, the harder it is to ignore how much of my own data I was leaking without noticing. Ad networks, data brokers, ISPs logging DNS queries, apps quietly harvesting contacts — none of it requires you to do anything wrong. It just requires you to exist online.
This page is the practical side of that obsession: the actual tools I use day to day. None of it makes you invisible, and I'm not going to pretend otherwise. It just raises the cost of watching you until most watchers give up.
Communication
For messaging I use Element over Matrix, on a homeserver I run myself. That's the part most people skip: even with end-to-end encryption, whoever runs the server can still see metadata — who's talking to who, when, how often. Self-hosting the homeserver means that metadata never leaves my own infrastructure in the first place.
For email, I use Tuta. It encrypts end-to-end by default, including the subject line, which most "encrypted" email providers still leave in plaintext.
Network
For a VPN, I use Mullvad. Talk is cheap when it comes to "no-logs" claims, but in April 2023 Swedish police raided Mullvad's offices with a warrant looking for customer data — and left with nothing, because there was nothing to find. That's a no-logs policy actually being tested, not just marketing copy.
Your ISP's default DNS is a full log of every domain you've ever visited, sitting with a company that has zero incentive to protect it. Point your DNS at a privacy-respecting provider instead, and if you want it handled for every device on your network automatically, a Raspberry Pi running Pi-hole does that plus ad and tracker blocking at the network level.
Operating system
For daily use I do use Windows but it's a flaw in my opinon and I want to switch ASAP to Linux. Windows ships with far more built-in telemetry than most people realize, and it's closed-source, so you're taking Microsoft's word for what it's actually doing under the hood. You should use Linux instead — Fedora, Qubes, or anything Arch or Debian based all work well, depending on how much you want to tinker versus how much you want it to just work.
For anything I need to do once and then leave zero trace of, I boot Tails from a USB stick. It runs entirely in RAM, routes everything through Tor by default, and forgets everything the moment you shut it down unless you explicitly set up persistent storage.
Now, you might think me saying all this is a bit much. But I'm just trying to help people choose their tools deliberately instead of defaulting into whatever's convenient — because at this point, your data is worth more than you are, to more companies than you'd guess. What I've written here isn't perfect or the final word, so trust your own judgment and keep researching past this page. I hope it helped, and don't judge.
"Arguing that you don't care about the right to privacy because you have nothing to hide is no different than saying you don't care about free speech because you have nothing to say."
— Edward Snowden